13. Whenever speaking about a tough subject, try to avoid saying вЂњyouвЂќ whenever you can. After we hear вЂњYou did this to meвЂ¦,вЂ™ up get the defenses. Take to expressing your self with phrases like вЂњi believe thatвЂ¦,вЂќ вЂњthis is just how personally i think aboutвЂ¦,вЂќ вЂњthis is just how we see itвЂ¦,вЂќ вЂњplease tell me personally if IвЂ™m incorrect.вЂќ Then go towards вЂњhow can we work this down together?вЂќ
14. Get compromisers. Practice God-pleasing humility by allowing your better half have actually their way from time to time.